How to Dance

Dancing by one of these indisputable facts of life. You maybe it was good to learn to do it. Believe me, it is smoother sailing when you know how (it's fun and good exercise also.)

You do not need to reach a very high standard

You just have to be good enough that you can get on the dance floor, mixed in with all the other, doesn't look like an idiot and not feel also uncomfortable while you are there (lots of people have something unpleasant with dancing, therefore they have to get a couple of drinks and wait for some other people to be on the dance floor first.)

hen someone (read: one or more girls) wants to dance with you, all they really want is that ... you are there with them you dance with them you don't dance terrible

Better than making minimum, which never hurt, of course.But just to know the basic gets you way ahead of all non-dancers out there.

Girls and guys have different perceptions of what a "good dancer" is

Guys tend to see dance as a skill to show off.It is important to them is ' better ' than other dancers. their typical image of a good dancer is a l ' arco break dancer draws from a bunch of wacky moves.

A girl picture of a good dancer is a closer to a passably movable guy that looks comfortable, confident, and just as he is fun.Plenty of girls have told me I was a "good dancer" (i.e. I am actually dance and not suffer fools total), but not many guys.

Worry about what guys think.A lot of dudes would snicker and point to the guys who dance, because they are basically just uncomfortable about doing it yourself.Random dudes sucking on their beer not your audience.

Let me stress.I am not a great dancer If you're comparing me to the guys want to see dance in a music video. I am not even large, compared to many other people in whatever I go to the club but I am good enough also get by.

If there is one thing to remember is to be subdued and low key

Not be a spaz and try to pull off some crazy moves, unless you are 100% know what you look good doing them, it is better to wheels even in achieving and above will have ' this guy ' worse than mixing and a little boring and unoriginal.

You don't have to pull away from tons of new move every second, it is okay to dance in a simple, repetitive way

If you are not familiar with dance, do not take the route of dance extra bad deliberately ' as a joke '. All see through this and it's not even funny, just kind of embarrassing.

Basics:

Move to the beat. Don't know what I mean? Go get some music and listen to the underlying asset, repeating thump-thump-thump pattern. Every style of music has different speeds.Bend your knees to jump up and down to beat art move your arms as you jump, it is about as fundamental as it gets
The best way to learn is to practice in equal

Get in front of a mirror, put some good music on, and start dancing to it.Remember, if your instinct is to jump around a lot or knowingly be a bit spazzy, tone even. a lot of time, you do not yet have so much space anyways so if you rehearse the only thing that requires a lot of space, you must put in an awkward spot on a crowded dance floor.

Try working on one aspect of dance on a stage, then putting the pieces together Keep everything else still and just bounce rate on your knees in various ways try bouncing up and down on your toes in different ways, Keep your legs and arms still and move your torso is up and down, and back.
Keep your body still, and bob your head in cool ways to move only your hips, Keep your arms still, but move your shoulders up and down, Keep your body still, but move your arms makes small step back and forth with your feet

When you are bored and hanging around even just put some tunes on and dance around.This is also a good chance to expand and/or deepen your taste in music

Practice various dancing scenarios

Dance on a dance floor, where you have plenty of space
This is the easiest, that you have all the space you need to do more flashy stuff, if you have so.The sea of space can sometimes be too much or make you feel self-confident, however.

Dancing on a crowded dance floor
When you exercise make sure to keep your feet are rooted in the ground and not swinging your arms out too much.Try to make your look cool anyways movements.

Dancing close to a chicken
The question here is knocking knees, and not being able to extend your arms too far in front of you. try dancing really close to a wall to get an idea of what it is.Or you can try dancing really close to a full length mirror.If I caught someone doing this I would laugh at them, but it is still a good way to practice.

Actually, partner dancing with a chicken.
It is harder to get to practice on your own. Still, you can place your hands in front of you like you're holding a person's waist or shoulder and practice moves with this limitation.I do not blame you if you do not want to do this.It is certainly a little stupid.Still, if the idea of dancing with a girl makes you uncomfortable, exert as this can take off edge.More practical advice would be to take a salsa, swing, or ballroom dance class, ask your chick friends to teach you to dance, or heading out with your girlfriend.If not you fear, go out to a bar and dancing with some random chicken.

Freaking it/sanding with girls.

I do not do this.I cannot afford to give.
A warning about dance classes:

No doubt you will learn a lot, but sometimes people get a shock when they then go to a Club and have to dance freestyle. they can not only start the swing dance or bust out a 14 move choreographed routine. Among girls are some of the most reticent dancers by clubs those who've taken ballet or the kind of choreographed styles, you can see in music videos. they feel lost and put on the spot and feel they are expected to ' perform ' on the dance floor.

More tips

Dance is a natural skill; Shape better you are in the easier it will be. General mesophilic fitness will implement you far. also have some perseverance in your legs a big help. Strong torso muscles help as well.

Watch music videos and other people in clubs to get an idea of what kind of moves they use.

Each style of music has a different way to dance to the. If you want to be dancing a lot at locations that play a certain kind of music you can try to teach the basic moves, all other uses. Dancing in a different style makes you stand out, but it is not something to sweat.

Lots of people need to get some alcohol in them before they can loosen up enough to hit the floor, you are no exception.

When alcohol is a good thing: you know how to dance half-decent, but are just slightly inhibited (lots of people). Alcohol will make you a better dancer in this case.

When alcohol is a bad thing: you don't know how to dance and try never yourself unless you are smashed. This will not be beautiful; if you know you don't dance than does not risk it. ... "But what if I get dragged there?" says. Seeeeee? It will get you sooner or later, so you should learn and be prepared for the. you learn just to dance and your natural tendency is to go over the top. Alcohol will bring your spaz trends to the surface.

This is a banal thing to say, but despite everything you've just read you simply pleasure and not over thinking things. have fun and not worry about what other people think about you ... Bla bla bla. Slut.

Christian, a former shy, hard-up, Lonely Guy writes free articles on how to overcome these issues at its website http://www.howtobecooler.com